What is the psychology that causes me to have rape fantasies? Why can’t I be aroused by consensual intercourse Since I was a very young boy, I used to pleasure myself to thoughts of people in pain. Starting around 5th grade I started having fantasies of stripping and humiliating sluts I knew. And these fantasies grew in high school and college. I’m not turned on by mutilation or anything that “does damage to the merchandise”. But I do like the girl getting cute roughed up, as long as her looks aren’t messed up. I spend a lot of time searching for stories, videos, and comics. I also look for real news articles. I would never hurt anyone in real life, this is just fantasy. I’m not into bdsm, since the fact that is voluntary doesn’t arouse me. I can’t get aroused to “normal” consensual porn. The idea of consensual sex does nothing for me sexually. I’m not into “ravishment” fantasies where the girl eventually enjoys it. And the stories and movies I enjoy, have a feisty nonsubmissive victim, who is brought down and deeply humiliated and degraded. I also like sex slavery, but I don’t want her to just accept the slavery but keep fighting back and being more debased and abused. The fact that victims are human beings, and feel pain, just turns me on more. I know this sounds beautiful bad. But its all just stories, pics, and movies. I don’t actually harm anyone. I just want to know, what you think causes this, and whether you think it is a problem..